If you’re like the rest of us, you’re still trying to wrap your brain around this insane “Manti Te’o had a girlfriend but she didn’t actually exist in real life but he apparently believed she did” story.
After the Deadspin story came the Notre Dame statement and the Te’o statement and the Jack Swarbrick presser and a barrage of information that came from all different angles, including:
- An Arizona Cardinals player who claims to have met Lennay Kekua
- An anonymous Irish player who says Te’o's a liar but things also kinda snowballed thanks to the media
- This video, wherein Te’o says Kekua wrote him a letter before the Stanford game this season even though she’d died (“died?”) a month before it took place:
If that’s not enough to drive you batty, a tweet came from an account with the handle @LennayKay a few hours after Swarbrick’s presser:
It isn’t fair to drag Reagan and Troy into this.. a lot of truths and myths need to be addressed here, and they will be at noon PST tomorrow
— L K (@LennayKay) January 17, 2013
Then came a couple of people who began tweeting out even more information. First, we have Justin Megahan, who did some solid Googling and discovered a whole bunch of tweets from the people who may be behind this hoax:
Well looky here, a couple people who new Lennay was fake joking about it a month ago. twitter.com/jayRahz/status…
— Justin Megahan (@justinrmegahan) January 17, 2013
And here’s them joking about running the fake Lennay account earlier this month twitter.com/jayRahz/status…
— Justin Megahan (@justinrmegahan) January 17, 2013
And here he is in early December outting Ronaiah Tuiasosopo twitter.com/jayRahz/status…
— Justin Megahan (@justinrmegahan) January 17, 2013
Hey, and here he is crediting Catfish as motivation twitter.com/jayRahz/status…
— Justin Megahan (@justinrmegahan) January 17, 2013
And here they are trying to contact the people from the Catfish doc about the scam topsy.com/twitter/catfis…
— Justin Megahan (@justinrmegahan) January 17, 2013
Next up is someone who goes by Jay R. and is the guy revealed in the previous tweets:
My prayers go out to everybody that was affected or involved with this Lennay Kekua scandal.
— jay.R (@jayRahz) January 17, 2013
Okay this is getting way out of hand.. everybody is tweeting that i had something to do with this scandal.. thats so far from the truth!
— jay.R (@jayRahz) January 17, 2013
we caught Ronaiah’s persona as Lennay Kekua back in 2008 and ended all ties with him..
— jay.R (@jayRahz) January 17, 2013
i didnt even know Manti Teo’s “girlfriend”‘s name til way after she supposedly died.. when i found out it was Lennay.. i tweeted about it!
— jay.R (@jayRahz) January 17, 2013
A few accounts tweeted me back w/ Ronaiah’s picture and tagged @lennaykay which is how Ronaiah found out.. all I did was tweet..
— jay.R (@jayRahz) January 17, 2013
everyone needs to hit up Ronaiah Tuiasosopo and get the truth.. the truth will set you free!!
— jay.R (@jayRahz) January 17, 2013
My tweets are not private because there is nothing to hide!! If i had secrets I would not be tweeting about it.. I mean, would you?
— jay.R (@jayRahz) January 17, 2013
Perhaps we should have NOT been joking about being @lennaykay cause now people are really believing and retweeting it.
— jay.R (@jayRahz) January 17, 2013
And then there’s this:
EVERY TWEET @jayrahz and I had about Lennay Kekua were all jokes. We knew from the beginning she was fake!
— C. (@ceeweezy51) January 17, 2013
Plus, a former Stanford football player weighed in on the situation:
Got to believe Te’o was the victim here.He would always ask us if we knew his mystery girl after we’d play them….
— Matthew Masifilo (@MMasifilo) January 17, 2013
So what does it all mean, other than that this is a huge tangled web of confusion? Was Te’o fooled all along? Did he figure out what was going on, and just wait to tell other people? Was he in on things from the get-go?
If the answer is that he really was duped and had no idea that his girlfriend never really existed, that makes him seem pretty naive and gullible, and it’s weird that he never thought twice about not Skype-ing or there being a lack of a death notice/obituary/remembrance piece, but okay.
If in fact he at some point figured out that the whole thing was a sham but was too embarrassed to admit what happened, then he needs to apologize for perpetuating the falsehoods. I really don’t think he was in on this from the beginning, but if he was, then he really needs to apologize.
Regardless of which scenario is true, Te’o needs to speak up soon and clear the air. It may be painful and/or embarrassing, but the longer he waits to talk, the more time there is for other information to come out, and the less likely people are to believe him.

